I became an entrepreneur at the age of 22 and I was a mother with

two young children.

So this year I've have been working with people for 18 years.

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I was surprised about the challenges I faced with my children and

with other people’s relationships.

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I thought nothing was going to surprise me anymore. But I noticed

bullying and lack of communication skills in many areas.

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If children and young people (also adults) would understand each

other better the bullying would be reduced.

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In addition, young people use a language where it’s normal to use

understatements, name-calling and degrading words to others.

Which in return does not increase their self-esteem.

 

With a small child everyday life is a struggle. Like understanding the child,

having a discussion, compromising, exhaustion, eating, fighting, cleaning,

laundry, shopping and changing diapers.

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Sometimes we're at the limits of madness and sometimes we cry with joy

and happiness.

 

As a parent, have you ever had the feeling that you're doing the same thing

all over again? Repeating the same things countless times and using the phrase

"what did I say”. Familiar parenting? Is this the way it has to be?

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As the child grows up, openness and a common path must be found;

It's communication. A child should be allowed to feel understood and

loved because we only have them on lend.

 

How do I cope with everyday life?

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For 18 years, I've taught people to understand behaviors and body languages.

For me, the most important thing with my children has been communication,

continuing into their teens. I want to be there.

 

There's a lot to learn and a lot I've learned. So I decided to write a book that is

easy to read and understand. In the book I offer families and couples goals and

techniques so that children are also taken into account.

 

The book is just the beginning but it's a good basis for everything.

 

And it works!

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I challenge parents to start a journey that gives everyone the opportunity to be

exactly who they are.

 

Anina

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